Relationships can be very complex and need a lot of time and care. Your relationship should be treated like a baby – given time, patience, understanding and lots of nurturing! If you are married or have been in a committed relationship for a long period of time, then you may be experiencing what feels like a dull and lackluster relationship. This is a natural occurrence and there are numerous ways via which you can learn how to restore this love and chemistry again! So continue reading!
Any kind of a relationship will require lots and lots of nurturing which means time! A spouse that feels he\she is not being given enough time, or is not the top priority in their partner’s life, can end up being a very unhappy spouse. You may have all the time in the world but you may not be spending it right. Take out at least an hour or two from your day to take your spouse out and enjoy a bit! This does not have to be some fancy restaurant! This can even be at a park! The more adventurous you are, the more you will find yourself falling back in love with each other.
We understand that life can be very stressful and this stress can inhibit your humor, making you seem very stern, lifeless or even overly sensitive about small matters! Research shows that this is one of the major causes for a problematic and dull relationship. Learn how to take things more easily, loosen up a bit ad learn how to just be silly and laugh at yourself sometimes! Stop taking what others say, and try not being so frigid! This will allow you and your spouse to have more fun with each other!
When you and your spouse first got together it must have been your dynamic looks and humor that whisked him\her away! Looks can play a very important part in your relationship! This is because after dating for a certain period, or being married with kids, this can affect you want to dress up and look good as overtime you may feel this becomes very hectic! However, one should never think like that. If anything, looking good will even make you feel nice about yourself! Therefore no matter how many kids you have, try wearing clean clothes, tie your hair neatly, wear perfume and do those nails.
You would know your spouse or partner more than anyone. Therefore if you feel there is something bothering them, try talking to them in a cool, mild and mannered tone! Try understanding what is bothering them and work on it! If you are in a conflict with your partner, be the one to fix it! If not fixed in time, these constant rising conflicts can turn into serious damage! Your partner’s love for you will grow more if you are the one trying to fix things instead of always trying to win the argument! You may feel you are always the one to put water to the fire, be the one to diffuse explosive arguments; and don’t worry, this will not go unnoticed or unappreciated! Your partner will be very grateful! Just remember, yelling and fighting will not get you anywhere.