So very often, girls stay in relationships with men that don’t treat them right. Either they refuse to accept the truth or find it difficult to see the waving red warning signs. Whatever the reason may be, if you aren’t happy in the relationship, or if you find your relationship to be more one sided, then it’s time to ditch the baggage.
Fitness Republic will help you making this decision easier by laying out ten warning signs, that scream ‘you need to ditch him’ so read on to find out if your relationship is worth the while.
Let’s be honest, occasions such as your Anniversary, your Birthday and Valentine’s Day DO matter! Even more so after you have spent years with your partner. However, if your guy on numerous occasions, repeatedly forgets your Anniversary, Birthday or Valentine’s day, for no apparent reason, then it’s probably a sign to pack up your things and go! This just shows that your man does not prioritize his relationship over other things in his life.
Every relationship reaches a point where two individuals become comfortable with each other and can spend lots of lazy time together. But this is a trap that most relationships are unable to recover from. You and your guy need to make it a point to go for outings together; big or small! If that’s not happening, then something might be wrong! Even if you are married, that does not mean you stop going on dates, this will just make your marriage seem as a routine! If you are not the lazy one, than that probably means you have a carefree, bedridden man in your life!
There can be many reasons for him not wanting to meet your friends. Either he is least bothered, doesn’t think it is worth his time or maybe he has self-esteem issues. Whatever the reason, if he wants to become part of your life, he should be more than willing to meet the people in your life without putting his own problems forward. Self-esteem issues or not, you will not want to be with a man who doubts himself! That will just end up becoming a headache!
Being a guy’s girlfriend definitely has its perk, like making you feel exclusive, wanted and loved! However if your man does not treat you like that, or any different from other girls then it may be time for you to get rid of him! If he does not love to you in public, in regards that he doesn’t show you may be in a relationship that is probably because he is trying to put up an act for other girls, portraying that he may be available.
To many guys, having a girlfriend to them just equals a physical relationship! So you need to make sure that your boyfriend is not just in it for his own reasons and that he actually has emotional feelings for you and wants to be with you! If not, don’t think twice about leaving him!
A man who does not think his partners opinions matter or are not valid is seriously a man that needs to be taught a lesson! Your opinion matters just as much as his, so don’t ever let a man talk you down or make you feel otherwise! If you feel your guy is treating you like this, show him how much you think your opinion is right! Leave him and teach the guy a lesson for future!
It is very important for a man to have respect for his family! A man who does not treat his own flesh and blood with the right demeanor or respect than how do you reckon he will treat you! It may be a bed of roses for now but sooner or later you’ll be next in line!
Paying for sweety every now and then is acceptable, however if he is never able to pay his share of the bill, and always insists on going out, then that’s a probably a sign that the time has come to move on. If he can’t financially afford to contribute his share (which is completely acceptable) but then he should state so and be firm on not going out.
If you go out with him and notice that his eyes just don’t seem to stop, and this is not the innocent look, we’re talking about the full on flirting with the eyes and smiling look! Don’t try ignoring this, if you feel he does this or if you have caught him in the act then don’t waste anymore of your time with him.
Sometimes couples enjoy themselves by being comfortable and being goofs! If your man is uncomfortable with your wild, goofy side then that means he will not accept you for who you are and will always pick out problems with your demeanor. You should be accepted for who you are and not be looked down at.